so much for fate

I think i've come to the conclusion that there isn't that classic, hollywood movie-type of "love at first sight" shit. I don't think that happens. the reason is because I don't believe in a "plan" of any sort; I'm pretty sure shit just happens when it happens, nothing planned. I think it's more like, a long time friendship that turns "we've been really good friends for a while, let's take it a step further". there's no instant "thing". I think it's gradual.

which is bad news for me...means I've got a bit of waiting to go... :/